Best of Asking Eric: I’m caught in a cult and don’t know how to get out
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Dear Eric: Twenty years ago, I found myself a part of a group that initially started as a gym buddy group. I was brought inside the circle by the “leader”, aka the one who initiates and makes plans.
Since the pandemic, the gatherings outside the gym (parties, social meetups) have increased a great deal. I feel resistance to our leader who would solely determine the theme, the food, the activities, the dress code for the parties or events.
The chance to be called out for any mistakes in the dress code can happen at a party. She has a strong personality, with the habit of saying what is on her mind with speech that can be harsh and shouty.
The other members seem fine with it. I do not understand why I can’t just grin and bear it during parties.
I have a fear of leaving not only because of possibly hurting her but because she is and has always been kind to me.
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